“I Can’t Afford It” — The Lie That’s Costing You Your Dream

 By Alycia Kaback | Co-Founder of VIP Ignite Live and Truth Mgmt

When people say,

“Alycia, I really want this… I just can’t afford it,”

I feel that ache — because I’ve been there.

But I also know what that sentence really means.

It doesn’t mean you can’t afford it.

It means you’re afraid — afraid to believe that you’re worth investing in.

Tony Robbins says,

“The quality of your life is determined by the quality of your decisions.”

And few decisions shape your life more than the moment you decide to back yourself.

💰 1. The Real Cost Isn’t Money — It’s Missed Opportunity

You’ve been taught to protect your wallet, not your potential.

But here’s the truth most people never hear:

Playing it safe is the most expensive decision you’ll ever make.

Every month you wait, every year you hesitate — someone else takes the role that could’ve been yours.

That hesitation doesn’t just cost you money; it costs you momentum.

And momentum is the one thing money can’t buy back.

⚡ 2. The Hormozi Rule of Investment

Alex Hormozi breaks it down simply:

“Money is just a tool to buy speed.”

When you pay for mentorship, training, or access — you’re not buying information.

You’re buying acceleration.

At VIP Ignite, we’ve spent twenty years building relationships, systems, and strategies that collapse decades of trial and error into days of progress.

What might take you ten years to figure out alone, you can accomplish in a few months — because we’ve already cleared the path.

That’s not an expense. That’s leverage.

🔥 3. “But Alycia… What If I Invest and Fail?”

Let’s talk about that fear — because it’s real.

When you say “I’m afraid to invest,” what you’re actually saying is:

“I’m afraid to fail publicly.”

But here’s the paradox: not investing guarantees failure.

Tony Robbins calls it the pain paradox — you can choose the pain of discipline now or the pain of regret later.

One lasts a season. The other lasts a lifetime.

🌱 4. Mireya’s Leap of Faith

When Mireya O. first met me, she said:

“Alycia, I’m a church secretary. I can’t afford to chase a dream that might not work.”

I looked her in the eye and said,

“You can’t afford not to.”

She found a way — sold a few things, picked up extra hours, and invested in herself.

That investment changed everything.

Today, she’s been seen in NFL, Starbucks, Yoplait, and Apple/Verizon campaigns and earns six figures for one job.

She told me later,

“The day I stopped thinking about what I might lose and started thinking about who I might become — that’s the day I started winning.”

🧠 5. The Psychology of “I Can’t Afford It”

“I can’t afford it” often isn’t about dollars — it’s about doubt.

It’s a defense mechanism your brain uses to stay comfortable.

Your subconscious doesn’t care about success.

It cares about safety.

So it convinces you to protect what’s familiar, even if it’s keeping you broke or stuck.

Tony Robbins teaches that success is 80% psychology, 20% mechanics.

That means it’s not your bank account that’s stopping you — it’s your belief system.

At VIP Ignite, we teach you to upgrade both.

“I Can’t Afford It” — The Lie That’s Costing You Your Dream

💡 6. The Hormozi Equation: ROI > EGO

Alex Hormozi says,

“CC”

Every time you invest in growth, you expose who you really are — committed or comfortable.

Here’s the math no one tells you:

If your dream could add even $1,000 a month to your income, a $1,000 investment would pay itself off in a single month.
But if you never invest, you’ll keep trading your time for survival instead of significance.

Which is riskier — betting on yourself, or betting that your fear will keep you safe?

🏗 7. The Foundation of Every Successful Talent

Every model, actor, or creative you admire — every “overnight success” — made one radical choice long before fame arrived:

They invested before they felt ready.

Erika W., now a recurring guest star on STARZ’s Raising Kanan, said it perfectly:

“I was terrified. I had bills, debt, and doubt. But when I joined VIP Ignite, I realized fear and excitement feel the same — only one moves you forward.”

The people you see winning didn’t wait until it was easy.
They decided that comfort was no longer an option.

💥 8. Scarcity vs Strategy

When you say “I can’t afford it,” what you really mean is “I haven’t prioritized it.”

People find money for vacations, gadgets, and takeout — but hesitate to fund their own future.

That’s not scarcity. That’s misplaced strategy.

The question isn’t “Can I afford it?”
The real question is “Can I afford to stay the same?”

If your dream could change your income, your confidence, and your entire life — the cost of not doing it is far greater than the cost of entry.

💎 9. From Survival to Significance

Tony Robbins teaches the six human needs: certainty, variety, significance, love, growth, and contribution.
Most people stay trapped in certainty — the need to feel safe.

But certainty never built a career.
Growth did.

When you invest, you trigger growth — and growth leads to freedom.

That’s why our students walk away not just with opportunities but with identity shifts.
They stop asking “Can I?” and start saying “I am.”

🧩 10. How VIP Ignite Makes Your Investment Count

Let’s get practical.
When you invest with VIP Ignite, you’re not throwing money into the wind. You’re investing in tangible, proven deliverables:

🎬 Professional training from industry experts.
📸 High-quality headshots & reels that make you market-ready.
💼 Access to casting directors, agents, and mentors.
🌍 Community that keeps you accountable, inspired, and connected.
🧭 Roadmap so you always know your next step.

This isn’t a “maybe someday” program — it’s a step-by-step system that has helped thousands of people transform their passion into paychecks.

⚙ 11. The Compound Effect of Courage

Every courageous decision compounds.
One Zoom audition turns into one callback.
One callback turns into one booking.
One booking changes everything.

Scott E. — a former accountant turned actor — once said,

“I almost didn’t do it because of the money. Now, I’ve been on set with Brad Pitt. I would’ve paid ten times more for that experience.”

When you invest in yourself, the universe matches your energy.
Doors open because you finally knocked.

“I Can’t Afford It” — The Lie That’s Costing You Your Dream

🔄 12. The Cost of Waiting

Here’s what most people don’t calculate: the cost of inaction.

If you wait another year, that’s 365 days of potential income, connections, and confidence gone.

If you keep waiting five years, you don’t just lose money — you lose time, and time is the only currency you can’t refund.

Tony Robbins says,

“Most people overestimate what they can do in a year and underestimate what they can do in a decade.”

But you can’t start that decade if you never take the first step.

💬 13. Real Stories, Real Stakes

💬 Christine H., once homeless, now international speaker:

“I thought investing in myself was selfish. It turned out to be the most generous thing I ever did for my future.”

💬 Jackson C., former NFL player:

“In football, you invest in coaches and training without question. Why wouldn’t I do the same for my next chapter?”

💬 Brandon H., model and actor:

“When I stopped thinking of VIP Ignite as a cost and started seeing it as a catalyst, everything changed.”

These people didn’t have spare money lying around — they had conviction.
And conviction always creates resources.

🧠 14. The Hormozi Mindset Shift

Alex Hormozi says,

“You don’t make big moves when you have money. You make big moves that make you money.”

Read that again.

People wait until it’s “safe” to invest — but that day never comes.
Success requires faith in advance.

You don’t invest because it’s easy.
You invest because it’s necessary.

🌟 15. A Final Word from Alycia

I get it — fear whispers that you should wait.
But the truth? Waiting has never created greatness.

Every person I’ve seen change their life started with the same fear you have right now.
They just decided to act anyway.

Tony Robbins says,

“It’s in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.”

This is one of those moments.

🚀 16. The Decision in Front of You

You can stay in the story of “I can’t afford it.”
Or you can step into the truth: you can’t afford not to.

Join the thousands of dreamers who turned fear into fuel, doubt into drive, and investment into independence.

👉 Register Now for Your VIP Ignite Zoom Audition

Because one day, someone will ask how you did it — and you’ll say,

“I stopped letting fear decide what I was worth.”

“It’s all about people skills and networking and that is what we offer.” – Alycia Kaback